Writing this blog is super scary for me. I’m an anxious person so I wonder…”Will anyone even read this?” “Will I offend anyone?”
I started a public Instagram page and having TWO public pages is scary. I feel vulnerable and exposed, but I also know it’s opening new doors and adventures for me.
I wrote my last blog on anxiety and I had a few people reach out to me privately thanking me for being so open and candid. Since that post, four different people in my personal life reached out and thanked me for sharing my story and my experience on how to handle anxiety.
The Truth Bomb Mom, and blogger, Kristina Kuzmic, courageously shared a story called “HOPE”. Another blogger, “That’s Inappropriate” also shared Kristina’s post. Meredith of “That’s inappropriate” also shared a separate post, specifically about anxiety.
Feeling it was a good message, I shared the post about anxiety to my personal Facebook Page and “3” people liked it…THREE…Why is there this stigma that it’s NOT okay to talk about Mental Health? I didn’t anticipate hundred of people to comment or hit the “like” button, but thought that more people would react or respond to a serious issue that plagues our country. Every single person knows somebody who suffers from anxiety or another mental illness. People struggling with mental illness don’t need to be shunned or talked about, they need support.
This past Saturday before I ran the Spring Lake 5, one of my friends mentioned a 22K for veterans. Another friend said, why 22K? Apparently, 22 veterans commit suicide DAILY because of PTSD. That’s 22 TOO MANY for men and women who have served our country and stood up for our freedom. They deserve support. (Check out ruckfor22.org). This hit me hard as my father in law is a veteran and has openly discussed his struggles with PTSD. Why do we as a society shun or not want to talk about mental health issues? There’s absolutely nothing wrong with admitting you have a problem. Why suffer alone? It’s a disease…Just like if you had a sinus infection or the flu. YOU TAKE MEDICINE so you do not feel sick…Well…Guess what, people with mental health issues take medicine too, and it does NOT make them weak. I apologize if I am coming across as brash or rude, but this is a topic that I am passionate about.
Prince William, Duchess Kate Middleton, and Prince Harry are speaking up about mental health over in the UK and it’s admirable how they are using their platform to bring awareness to an issue that many are plagued by, but are too scared to admit. “Heads Together” www.headstogether.org.uk is their foundation, and it warms my heart that they are opening up about their struggles over the loss of their mother. Prince Harry openly discussed the emotions they experienced in the aftermath of her loss, and even now. If they can encourage or inspire somebody to get help, or not suffer in silence, they have succeeded.
I will never shy away from my struggles with anxiety. It makes me a more empathetic person and it makes me… ME. Clearly, it’s not pleasant having anxiety, but it comes and it goes. I have learned to recognize and to manage my triggers. For example, I will be presenting a scholarship in my brother’s name. My dear friend Rachel will also be presenting a scholarship in her brother’s name. Times like this trigger my anxiety because the loss of my brother is SO REAL. Prior to scholarship night, my anxiety was high due to buying a house and my grandmother getting sick – for somebody prone to anxiety, it doesn’t take much.
Depression, Anxiety, and PTSD are only a few of the mental health issues that plagues our society. For anyone struggling, stay positive and strong, even in your hardest days. Mental health issues DO NOT make us any less of a person. For those of you that do not suffer anxiety or any other mental health disorder, but love somebody who does, remember, we just want to be accepted for who we are. Be careful with your words – we aren’t weak, but we are sensitive – and because of our empathy and sensitivity, we will be your strongest supporters, your most loyal, and your most loving friends.
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